I once dated a man who temporarily lost his thoughts: standing over me, pointing his finger in my face and saying a bunch of words I could no longer hear. I asked him to take a seat and stop pointing: THREE TIMES. He didn’t. I stood up, gathered my things and walked outside. He…Read more »
Sistren, we’ve become far too sentimental about these matters of the heart. And before we know it, we’re in the ring of fidelity to someone who could give a hill of beans less about the deepest desires of our hearts; yet expects us to be their mother incarnate. I’m joking. Seriously though: if you could…Read more »
Once when I was in premarital counseling with a fool I was most certainly NOT going to marry, the minister shared a valuable tip: “Seek first to understand before being understood.” I took the advice, ditched the dude and kept it pushing. I have taken the scenic route to understanding; after years of ego…Read more »
Look, we’ve all heard it said, “Men are logical” or know what it means when they someone whispers at a 50-year anniversary, “She’s a good woman.” Well, this week, I muster up my sauce and share four myths that get under my skin regarding men and women.
He knelt on one knee, reaching for his pocket. I shook my head fervently, NO! My eyes must have shrieked because he flinched as if too-hot water had splashed on his face. “I propose engagement.” “Me too,” he smiled, reaching again. “Not with a ring.” He stopped. “With your heart, your thoughts, your body, your very breath.…Read more »