I once dated a man who temporarily lost his thoughts: standing over me, pointing his finger in my face and saying a bunch of words I could no longer hear. I asked him to take a seat and stop pointing: THREE TIMES. He didn’t. I stood up, gathered my things and walked outside. He…Read more »
Sistren, we’ve become far too sentimental about these matters of the heart. And before we know it, we’re in the ring of fidelity to someone who could give a hill of beans less about the deepest desires of our hearts; yet expects us to be their mother incarnate. I’m joking. Seriously though: if you could…Read more »
Once when I was in premarital counseling with a fool I was most certainly NOT going to marry, the minister shared a valuable tip: “Seek first to understand before being understood.” I took the advice, ditched the dude and kept it pushing. I have taken the scenic route to understanding; after years of ego…Read more »
“Girls are trained to behave. Boys are praised for rebellion. And thus, the Great Dilemma begins, for neither is the foundation of relationship; rather, it’s a set up for power struggles.” ~Asha Tane Relationships are everything. I’ll never be convinced otherwise. And so, much of my growth and development is rooted in my relationship with…Read more »
Look, we’ve all heard it said, “Men are logical” or know what it means when they someone whispers at a 50-year anniversary, “She’s a good woman.” Well, this week, I muster up my sauce and share four myths that get under my skin regarding men and women.
Dear Wombs, You were not created to simply help or mate, you were created as whole FIRST. What you decide to do with your wholeness is up to you. You are the gateway to life. Remember being wild? Remember being? Remember? Well, you were. We ALL were. We all can return, too. When’s the last…Read more »
Dear Woman, Masks are intriguing, but they were meant to come off. Yes, they are lovely for festivals and role playing, not so much for living your ACTUAL life. In fact the fear of being seen just may be the NUMBER ONE cause of your feeling so damn lonely and emotionally “put out” of your…Read more »